Ever lie awake at night wondering why so many things are going wrong?
Ever get into trouble even though you are following the "good" path?
There are many factors affecting this seemingly infinite expanse of misery beneath our feet but let me introduce one of its agents.
These are people who always are ready to go and do something without the slightest thought about how it could or would impact another human being. I call them the "wreckers" for lack of a better PG 13 derogatory term.
These are the kind of people some call "spontaneous" but I do not. There is a fine line between being "spontaneous" and being a nut case. You are sitting alone at home and you decide to write a poem or draw a picture.. great. Thats spontaneous. You try face painting on your room mate while he is driving down a freeway at 80 miles an hour? Spontaneous?
Catch my drift? And also included in this category of folks are guys who think two steps behind what they are doing. These are the people who you will find setting out on journeys with no clues about what they are supposed to do when they get there. The worst part is that they dont suffer alone. Invariably they will have a "good" friend who will be just a phone call away and who will drop everything to come to their aid. Lucky for them but what about the good friend. Why does he need to screw up his well planned schedule to accommodate a bunch of nincompoops who couldnt plan in advance?
Misery seeks company and I can see the reason now.. A bunch of miserable people will get all the others into the mess as well. Working with idiots is the biggest health hazard ever. Damn.
So if you think you are the one who always ends up adjusting yourself to accommodate your friends then take a break. This cycle will never end. Its nature and you are at the bottom of the food chain of misery. Everyones out to get you. Run, run!!! AAahhhhh.
